Most people cringe when they think about conflict. The response is natural. Conflict imposes a danger and the human brain is wired to escape danger. You may have heard of the expression “fight-or-flight mode.” Our response can be ad hoc, defensive, or even inflated.
We want harmonious relationships so we can collaborate and get things done, even in a competitive environment. What do you do when conflict arises in your team? What do you do when you are in the middle of it?
You can be the peacemaker, the problem-solver, the power-player, the diplomat, the ignorant, or pick a different…
Have you ever wondered how much influence you can have on your career? How much do your choices impact your leadership? How many decisions are made by external factors?
The question about external factors influencing your future hardly matters. That’s because you have the power of choice. Even if unfavorable circumstances hit you, you can choose to respond in different ways.
What happens when you find it hard to make any decision or remain inactive? The same will happen as with every other choice because indecision and passiveness are choices. …
Tuesday morning. Monday was phenomenal. You got so much done. Tuesday is going to build on it. You head to the doctor. You managed to get that precious first appointment. You’ve set aside 30 minutes for that visit, but find yourself on the way home over 90 minutes later. Ugh. You had planned other things during that time.
Are you a planner? I am. Planning the next day is important. …
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As a coach, you have to wear many hats: Besides being the Chief Coach, you’re the Head of Marketing, Head of Sales, the Head of Finance (or your spouse is), and you are your own Executive Assistant.
Until your business has grown large enough to hire helpers, you have to juggle that yourself. …
Have you had enough bad news yet? Here is some good news: If your income is affected already by the coronavirus, you are not out of options. These times sure aren’t easy. You may have been hit harder, faster, and need to bridge the income gap right now. Or you have been looking to transition careers for a while, and now your job is looking shaky. Whatever the case, your adaptability during this time matters. So does your engagement. Both will determine who will thrive and not just barely survive job-wise.
I have considered the options for these two scenarios:
What do you see in your social feed: countless diet-fad ads? Or ‘gurus’ offering you help you achieve a breakthrough? Likely both, because that’s the season we’re in. What season? The season for goals and good intentions. The season for gurus to come out and make your life great again.
We want the year to be great. We have goals. And ‘gurus’ know this, so they release their books and courses.
We want to get in shape. We’re looking for a new job. We need better habits, more focus, more clients, more this, less that. You get the pattern.
I love reading blogs. I hate most long-winded articles. That said, there are some brilliantly structured and well researched articles out there that make the reading worthwhile.
The problem is, those types of long-form, well-structured articles with heavy information/education value are unicorns.
Disclaimer: I am still a novice writer. I am observing. And I am writing this while I am refining my own voice and style.
The beaten path hasn’t worked for me because it doesn’t support my vision. I normally write about career topics and wantrepreneur topics.
Today, I am pondering ways to leave the beaten path of online…
What is your overall job satisfaction? Does your career fit into the overall picture and plan of what you want in life and who you were made to be? If not, it begs the question:
I was shocked at how many people I have found who were unable to answer that question for themselves. If you are at a loss for words, you’re not alone.
The reason can be rooted in these areas:
Not knowing the available options sounds almost too easy…
You love the commute as a remote worker, but you dread the constant assumption of your in-office peers that you’re working in your undies while watching TV? You share this dilemma with your roughly 4 million fellow American remote workers.
Perception is a reality to the presumptuous critic. Even in a world with increasing demand and appreciation for remote work, we still have a huge gap in understanding and in skilled, experienced and effective virtual leaders and office workers.
Those gaps can impact your career unless you learn to manage your response to these challenges.
You’re not physically visible, your…
Have you been wanting to work from home (WFH) and become part of the growing crowd of digital nomads?
If you haven’t met a lot of people who WFH or have tried to land a remote job without success, don’t give up.
Before you set out to hunt for those virtual jobs, know what it requires of you. Contrary to common belief, not everyone is made for it and a smaller fraction is willing to be good at it.
Those who are willing…